Relationships matter. This life is made up of the relationships we have. I don't think there is an area of life where we are not the product of the people we let into our world. For some people, those encounters are not always healthy. Most of the troubles people discuss with me are directly related to the quality of some relationship. If we are depressed, chances are it's due to some failures with or by others. If we are encouraged, chances are it's due to the success of those relationships. These things are important even to those of us who are introverted or shy.
Never take this for granted. Life is far too short to squander with the toxic effects of people who bring us down. Scripture knows the value of relationships. Both Old and New Testaments tell us about how to value others as well as ourself. Even Jesus knew the need to spend time with friends. We often find him with his inner circle along with attending parties filled with joy.
I confess this is a major weakness in my personality. The older I get, the more it seems to be an issue for others as well. We need friends in our world. We need people who are a positive part of becoming who God wishes us to be. We also need to learn how to nurture those relationships without losing them. Part of being church lies in the simple truth of learning how to be friends with those around us. Here is to hoping we all get and keep those people who moves us to healthy Christian living. It is my best prayer for you.
Bro. Trey